The old cliche goes, “there are many fish in the sea”—when you find your fish (or in this case, vegetable) and you’re sure that they’re the “one”—you’d better stick to your guns!
Be sure to participate in activities that you might not like so much but your mate enjoys. You’ll be more likely to have your partner join you in activities that they don’t necessarily think is fun.
Once you’re settled together and the years go by, remember to appreciate the little things your partner DOES do.
Most couples eventually have kids. Please remember that what works for some families doesn’t work for everybody.