The Poem

Letter Of Recommendation From My Father To My Future Wife

by Richard Jones

During the war, I was in China.
Every night we blew the world to hell.
The sky was purple and yellow
like his favorite shirt.

I was in India once
on the Ganges in a tourist boat.
There were soldiers,
some women with parasols.
A dead body floated by
going in the opposite direction.
My son likes this story
and requests it each year at Thanksgiving.

When he was twelve,
there was an accident.
He almost went blind.
For three weeks he lay in the hospital,
his eyes bandaged.
He did not like visitors,
but if they came
he’d silently hold their hand as they talked.

Small attentions
are all he requires.
Tell him you never saw anyone
so adept
at parallel parking.

Still, your life will not be easy.
Just look in the drawer where he keeps his socks.
Nothing matches. And what’s the turtle shell
doing there, or the map of the moon,
or the surgeon’s plastic model of a take-apart heart?

You must understand —
he doesn’t see the world clearly.
Once he screamed, “The woods are on fire!”
when it was only a blue cloud of insects
lifting from the trees.

But he’s a good boy.
He likes to kiss
and be kissed.
I remember mornings
he would wake me, stroking my whiskers
and kissing my hand.

He’ll tell you — and it’s true —
he prefers the green of your eyes
to all the green life
of heaven and earth.

Richard Jones is the director of the Creative Writing Program at DePaul University, as well as the author of five books of poetry, the most recent, The Blessing, published by Copper Canyon Press, © 2000, in which can be found “Letter Of Recommendation From My Father To My Future Wife.”

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Roz Levine

February 21st, 2013 at 3:27 PM    


In the smallest of details executed with simple precision, Richard Jones once again affirms his place as one of our great American poets. If you don't own THE BLESSING, do yourself a big favor and buy it; you'll be ever so grateful to give this book a specail place in your library.

Roni Keller

February 21st, 2013 at 4:24 PM    


Thank you for this beautiful sensitive poem.

Kay Smith

February 21st, 2013 at 4:36 PM    


The lump is still in my throat after having read this poem. I'm going to own THE BLESSING, but right now I'm going to call my son. Thank you.

Sean

February 21st, 2013 at 4:38 PM    


This is fantastic. I love Richard Jones' poems. I'm reading The Blessing right now and studying him for Jack Grapes' Method Writing, and I'm blown away. I'm going to write a poetry book called Mr. Jones and Me namesake of the Counting Crows famous song and hope that by some grace of God that his brilliance will spill over onto the pages of my book. By the way, adept parallel parking is just about the highest compliment anyone can receive. Compassion, exuberance, and love get waylaid by parallel parking every time.

Alima Sherman

February 21st, 2013 at 4:53 PM    


In the ordinary he touches us, one of my favorite poets.

C. Jean Pearlstein

February 21st, 2013 at 4:55 PM    


Richard Jones' poetry is at first glance simple, he uses every day language. As you read it the words hold you, the deeper layers reveal themselves and you become a life long fan.

margie goodspeed

February 21st, 2013 at 5:00 PM    


moved to tears this morning by this poem. and that is very good. not as good as a mismatched sock drawer, but i already have one of those i keep hidden in my closet. so i'll take this poem. this morning. and be grateful for Richard Jones.

Julie

February 21st, 2013 at 6:04 PM    


What a beautiful poem. Tears pricked my eyes at,

He’ll tell you — and it’s true —
he prefers the green of your eyes
to all the green life
of heaven and earth.

Just beautiful.

Jan McGuire

February 21st, 2013 at 6:16 PM    


stunning, richard…thank you from all the green life on heaven and earth. poems like this keep our fingers on the pulse of the heartbeat of life. again and again thank you. what a delightful way to start my day.

Rhoda

February 21st, 2013 at 6:37 PM    


Richard Jones knows how to cut to the soul of life and leave us wanting more. Please continue to post his work. _

Joel Shearer

February 21st, 2013 at 6:47 PM    


This is my introduction to Richard Jones and I am anxious to dig into more. Of to find the Blessing!!!

Lisa Segal

February 21st, 2013 at 7:15 PM    


lucky me to be already familiar with this poem
so my smile was huge when i saw the title on the masthead
because i love this poem so much.
and the smile, at least the upturned corners of my mouth,
managed to still be there enough by the end of the poem
to catch the tears that this poem
never fails to bring.

Candace Culp

February 21st, 2013 at 7:56 PM    


Sitting here with two dogs across my lap, a cup of coffee and this poem in my heart. The day can't get much better.
Richard Jones imbues his words with such love and sweetness.
Thanks for sharing it and for such fine choices each week.

Joe Kennedy

February 21st, 2013 at 8:08 PM    


It bugs me that this writer's books aren't easy to find. To buy, you'd probably have to get it from Amazon,and that's good, but hey, they oughta be teaching RJ in schools, he's fantastic!

Alice Hofheimer

February 21st, 2013 at 8:12 PM    


Wonderful poem! Such deep love rendered simply and vibrantly. Thanks for this — Richard for the poem, Jack for introducing me to Richard's work.

Sarah Mac Donald

February 21st, 2013 at 8:46 PM    


A layered poem that stays in my heart. Thx for publishing it.

sorrygnat

February 21st, 2013 at 10:41 PM    


Adore it; i'm a follower now!

Barbara Rothstein

February 21st, 2013 at 10:48 PM    


I wish I could express how affecting this Richard Jones poem is for me. Maybe it's enough to say that it could not have found a straighter line to the absolute center of my heart. Publishing work like this is important for all of us. thank you so much
Barbara

Kathy Goldman

February 21st, 2013 at 11:02 PM    


I started this poem thinking I'd take a quick read and then dash off to send some emails. Instead I'm sitting here trying to find the words to say how my heart has been touched. My eyes are all teary and bleary. Thanks, Richard.

Robert Carroll

February 22nd, 2013 at 2:01 AM    


I've loved Richard's poetry for almost twenty years.
This is no exception.

Robert Carroll

Angela

February 22nd, 2013 at 2:15 AM    


I prefer this poem to all the green life of heaven and earth.

Jack Grapes

February 22nd, 2013 at 4:02 PM    


It's nice to know that I don't have to hesitate and waffle and quibble and evaluate and wisely stroke the beard on my chin when someone asks me who the finest living American poet is. I say Richard Jones, then shoot the jump shot before the defender gets his hand in my face. I first read with Richard 25 years ago at Beyond Baroque with Sam Hamill, but we had lunch prior to that in a small Mexican cantina across from the old Scientology Building. I was wearing my torn blue sweatshirt, and Richard was pulling roses and carrots from his ears. We struck it off immediately, two poets stupid enough to love poetry when so much else in the world was letting us down. From the first line of the first poem I ever read by Richard, to the last line of this poem in Cultural Weekly, I continue to be astounded, and blessed, that Richard is my friend. My friend for life. As is poetry. Thanks to Adam and Alexis for making room in the Cultural Weekly for Richard's wide and compassionate heart.

Adesh Kaur

February 22nd, 2013 at 7:35 PM    


OMG!!! Richard… I can't breathe. This poem, this poem, this poem. It is perfect. Line by surprising line. I am standing here weeping in my kitchen. THE BLESSING is YOU!!!! And you are in my heart always. Thank you.

Adesh Kaur

February 22nd, 2013 at 7:38 PM    


P.S. Thank you Alexis. Richard Jones is a brilliant choice.

Lauree Turman

February 22nd, 2013 at 11:23 PM    


thank you for running this amazing poem by this amazing poet.

Toni-Ann

February 23rd, 2013 at 6:02 AM    


Alchemy at it's finest..Thank you

Elya Braden

February 23rd, 2013 at 8:54 PM    


I love the father's perspective and the shift from the father's story to the son's stories and quirks to what the son sees in his future wife. Jeweled images, deep feeling. What a gorgeous poem!

Mary Petrie Lowen

February 24th, 2013 at 1:19 PM    


Richard Jones is a blessing. He is a master poet who reminds this reader of the preciousness of life. His poems never fail to move me to my core. Thank you for publishing one of my favorites, from one of my favorites, on one of my favorites: Cultural Weekly. Buy THE BLESSING folks and read anything by Richard Jones you can get your hands on. I had the great good fortune to take his class. If you should find yourself with the same opportunity: seize it. Thank you to another master poet, Jack Grapes, for introducing me to Richard's poetry years ago and thank you to Adam and Alexis for sharing this beautiful poem, and for being such a wonderful home for great poetry, and poets.

Jonella

February 25th, 2013 at 6:53 PM    


Such crisp images, particularly how life will not be easy based on the contents of his sock drawer. Ordinary. Beautiful. Sweet and touching.

maureen grady

February 25th, 2013 at 7:37 PM    


moving and powerful- so loved the ending
maureen grady

Liz Tynes Netto

February 26th, 2013 at 8:21 AM    


I've never read a poem like that. Parenting is joyful, scary, weird, and full of love. But you said it much better, Mr. Jones.

Madeline Sharples

February 26th, 2013 at 8:41 PM    


I love this poem, Richard, and I always love being in your poetry workshops. You definitely practice what you teach. Thanks you. Madeline

Richard McKenzie

February 26th, 2013 at 9:51 PM    


That's a poem. That's a poem. That's a poem. Thank you Mr. Jones. Richard McKenzie

Marilyn Conrad

February 27th, 2013 at 2:58 AM    


Thank you for this beautiful poem. It is a true gift of the heart.

Mia Sara

February 27th, 2013 at 1:09 PM    


On my bedside table, there is a photo of my husband when he was 8, a rock my daughter painted bright yellow, a drawing of a monster from my son with an apology for always waking me up in the middle of the night, a small white alarm clock, my reading glasses, and Richard Jones' 'The Blessing,' for when I wake myself up in the middle of the night and need a trusted hand with a bright torch to guide me until the sun rises. Thank you, Richard. Great choice Alexis.

Carolyn

March 4th, 2013 at 1:51 AM    


I too have my copy of The Blessing handy, so I can reach for it when I need it. I love this poem, thank you!!!

Laurie Jefferson

March 6th, 2013 at 12:44 AM    


I read this over and over, so deeply touching!!! thank you!!!!

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